"Turn to God and change the way you think and act, because the kingdom of heaven is at hand." Matthew 2:3

Monday, January 21, 2013

TROUBLED MARRIAGE?


At the outset, i would thank my dearest sister, Cynthia LeGrone (B.S graduate in Marriage & Family Life Studies) for sharing this wonderful message with me. I believe it inspired many and i'm sure you will also reap the blessings as you read it through.

Not to knock the single person none the least, because we all lived the single life, prior to our marriages.

However: With marriage being the institution of a procreative unit, I find that it carries a great umbrella of responsibilities. Responsibilities that many times go un-rewarded by the members of the unit within the cycle of our lives.

You may now be wondering where it is that I'm headed. Well, let me say it like this:

When two people are joined together as one, it can many times create a colossal of confusion in the early stages of the relationship, especially if the marriage was un-evenly yoked.

You see, rather than two people coming together as the union they now are, we many times, un-knowinly continue in our on ways, in our own private worlds, doing a lot of the things we done as singles, and before we realize it, the "Marriage Is In Turmoil' and headed for divorce.

This is troubling, but not un-fixable! A Marriage mandates the works of two people, and under the authority of the power of God that put the two together, "All Things Are Possible."

God's word clearly states in the book of Proverbs 18:22, Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord. In seeking God's directions all things are made 'new again'.

The responsibilities within the marriage also include our willingness to forgive one another and admit our wrong. The old saying, "when you tell one lie, you will have to tell another to cover up the other, is so very true."

We have a multitude of weight on our shoulder as men and women of our households, as we carry out the responsibility of providing for our families, loving one another, and raising our children to the very best of our abilities. The struggle can sometimes become over-bearing, but when that happens, this is the time to cling to one another, and to God for the strength that which He had promised to brings us through.

Yes, (The Institution of Marriage) has and will forever trickle down through to the very core of who and what we have become.

May we each as par-takers within our unions be very proud and mindful that we are not in this alone and that our partners are only one step away. Therefore, the pat on the back that we seldom receive is so deserving.

Better Still, "God is always with us", never leaving us nor forsaking us.

May God's Blessings Be upon You and Yours Forever, with The Re-Kindling Fire and Powers He has Vested within The Two As 'One.'

Note: Please feel free to share this with your friends & others as you might save somebody's life.
 

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